FetLife Profile: 2010
I’m doing some scrubbing on my FetLife profile. (More about that later.)
It occurred to me that I should record what I write before I rework it, as a sort of journal. Then I can look back on it, should I so desire.
Plus, it’s a cheap way to get more content up here on my sorely neglected blog. (More on that later too.)
Here’s what I had up until today. It’s mostly what I wrote when I first joined FetLife; there were some tweaks in the early months of my kinky life. I’ll call it “2010″ since it’s most applicable to that year.
I’ve been kinky for a long time, but only started admitting it recently. I’ve dabbled a bit and studied a lot; now I want to explore with the community. FetLife looks like a good first step.
I’m calling myself a “Dom”, though I like to switch now and then. To a large extent, I reflect the identity and pleasures of my partner. So, I’ll play Dom to a sub, sadist to a masochist, bottom to a top. I sometimes like to sub to an enthusiastic Domme, but I definitely prefer being on the top end of things. I’m not much for roleplay outside of D/s, and have a low-level (but developing) appreciation for fetish wear.
My real first name is Craig, and that’s what you’ll probably hear me go by in real life. There’s so many names for a new person to remember already; I don’t want to complicate it more by doubling up.
My wife and I are taking our first steps in the scene; we’re hoping to meet some great people who will introduce us to the scene. Real-life local to Calgary is ideal but online friends are welcome too. I’m interested in anything that anyone has to say; feel free to leave me a note if you’d like to talk.
I just started a blog about my new sexual life chapter. I’d be overjoyed if you read it and left a comment. It’s at:
I hope everyone is having all the fun they can handle!